Thursday, 10 June 2010

Is it a Fashion Show...a Premiere...no it's a Wedding!!



I remember being at a wedding waiting for the guests to be seated and the bride to arrive and for a minute it felt like I was waiting for a fabulous couture fashion show to begin. There was this quiet chatting amongst the people waiting for the wedding to begin and the energy in the room was full of anticipation, excitement and optimism Although the ‘audience’ was calm, the music was soothing and atmosphere was electric, I knew that was going on ‘backstage’ was controlled chaos. There would have been months of preparation for the fashion show. A considerable amount of money is spent on music, the venue, the clothes, transportation, hair and makeup, shoes, fittings, photographers, videographers and the rest. You’re probably now confused as to which one I’m talking about, the fashion show or the wedding!

As the time nears for the music to start and the bride to walk down the aisle accompanied by her friends and family, the energy in the room intensifies...with the bride and bridal party as well as the audience members. And this is where the similarities end. The supermodels have been trained, have practiced and have done this many times before. They look calm, full of confidence and walk seamlessly down the catwalk as though they are walking down the street. They know where the cameras are even though they don’t acknowledge them. They look comfortable in their own skin and the new and extraordinary clothes they are wearing. Whereas the bride has probably never done this before and may have concerns about how they look, how to walk in the dress with high heels and a veil and not trip, what people think of her, will it be perfect, how will she look in the pictures, do they like her hair, her makeup, her shoes? How will she cope with being the centre of attention as she has never done that before? Questions, emotions, panic!

Relax...you can learn how to be the supermodel of your wedding. Models weren’t born knowing how to glide seamlessly down the catwalk even if they have the wrong size shoes on! You can too. I know this is a new concept but you spend so much time worrying about flowers, invitations, guests, cake, music, venue and many other things but how are you doing? You’ve probably never organised such a large event before and in addition to organising it you are the star of the show! That’s where I come in. I can teach you, quickly, how to feel confident on the inside and reflect that on the outside. How to buy the perfect wedding shoe and walk in it gracefully. How to work with the camera to get the best photos, find your best angle and not end up looking like a meringue, even if you have chosen reportage photos!

If you would like to feel more confident on the inside, look more confident on the outside, walk seamlessly and painlessly in your shoes, learn how to have great posture forever, find your best angles for the camera and thoroughly enjoy your big day, be sure to visit my Bridal Confidence Coaching sessions at the National Wedding Show – or, if you can't wait until then, visit http://www.thebridalcoach.co.uk/ for more information.

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